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What You Can Expect From Our Coaching Sessions:

  • Give you feedback on the current state of your marriage, and help you discover or fine-tune a path forward that preserves the most possible hope of reconciliation.

  • I try to balance collaboration (where we work together to find the answers that fit for you) with candid and practical feedback (where I might tell you a hard truth you need to hear, or pointedly suggest a certain decision or action).

  • Help you hone in on the specific things to focus on, based on my experience seeing similar separations.

  • Work with you to see your wife’s point-of-view in a more empathetic way, to aid in communication and reconnection.

  • Help you find answers to your hardest questions you’re struggling with in your marriage right now.

  • I will meet you where you’re at. Whether you’re living together or apart, there’s an affair or not, divorce is filed or things are just rocky, I will help you see the opportunities you have available to improve your relationship.

Option 1.
60-minute Coaching Call


Exactly what it sounds like... A private one-on-one coaching call via Zoom where we will figure out a gameplan for getting through whatever you're facing in your marriage.

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Option 2.
4-Week Daily Access Coaching Plan

$1,800 (currently closed)

Direct access to me every business day for 4 weeks. This is for the guys who want ongoing help with the day-to-day stuff. Here's what's included:

  • 1x Introductory Coaching Call
    In our first week, we will do a 75-minute introductory call where you can take your time and tell me the story of how you got here, and we can work together on an initial plan of action.

  • 3x Weekly Coaching Calls
    Then, in weeks 2 through 4, we will have a weekly 60-minute coaching call where we can check-in and refine your approach to your marriage as things evolve.

  • Priority Email Coaching Support, Mon-Fri
    You'll also get direct access to a private email reserved only for my  Daily Access clients. This is the email I keep on my personal phone, and I zero it out daily Mon-Fri. Basically this means you have the ability to get my advice, usually within a few hours, every single business day that you need it for the next four weeks. 

  • 3-Month Invite to Weekly Group Q&A Call
    I don't want to leave you hanging after our 4 weeks are up, which is why you'll be getting a 3-month invite to my Weekly Q&A Call where I answer every question, every week, live on a group Zoom call. Possible to participate anonymously. Recorded and uploaded same day if you can't make it live.

This coaching plan is intended for the guys who really do want intensive short-term help. I want to help you love more effectively in ALL areas of your life, and I won’t be shy about telling you if I see blind spots.

Although I do not currently have an application process for this coaching plan, I would ask that you review my ideal client qualifications further down this page before signing up.

Currently CLosed To New Clients

*For the sake of transparency, I will tell you that Peace & Control students do get access to a third way of private coaching via the Course + Group Support Package. This optional upgrade to the course includes a 75-minute Strategic Coaching Call, the same 3 months of weekly group Q&A calls and access to a private support group.

My ideal client is...

  • Highly committed to his marriage
  • Aware of his desperation mode tendencies… I’m not asking you to be perfect, but it helps if you come in with enough self awareness to tell me “Here are the things I’m really having a hard time not screwing up”
  • Is willing to consider unconventional paths to connection with his wife
  • Puts a high priority on love, integrity and humility
  • Truly desires to see his own weaknesses so that they can be strengthened
  • Has completed at least modules 1-5 of Peace & Control… Technically optional, but it will help us use our coaching time more effectively if you already have a base of knowledge for how I approach things by the time we talk. Otherwise our coaching time will largely be spent teaching you the fundamental concepts that are in the course, because, well, that’s why they’re in the course :)

Does this sound like you?

If so, I am very confident that we will be able to have a very productive conversation about what your best path forward might look like. If you’re not sure, please know I really am here to help everyone – you are free to reach out to with any questions you have about any of my coaching options.

A little more about my coaching background and style:

Believe it or not, I never planned to coach men through separation when I started Husband Help Haven way back in 2011. I was just a guy on the wild west of the internet who really wanted to have a good marriage himself, and who wanted to teach and help other men to do the same.

It didn’t take me long to realize that there is a constant undercurrent of men in marriage crisis within our world today. Women are leaving their husbands and their families in higher numbers than ever before, and much of our world applauds.

My mission on Husband Help Haven is to help as many men as possible save their marriage, and become the best man they can be in the process. I wish I had the time to help every single one of you do that on a personal, one-on-one level. Back in the day, I prided myself on extensively helping every single guy that reached out to me. That’s how I learned so much about the relationship dynamics behind separation in the first place; I walked side-by-side through the trenches of literal thousands of men’s separations via limitless free email coaching for a good 7 or 8 years.

I finally began professionally coaching Husband Help Haven readers on a case-by-case basis back in 2019. Since then, I have professionally coached over 100 men through their separation. I’ve learned that there really is no better way to help people than face-to-face coaching. 

If you have any questions, or if you need to schedule a custom time not available on the calendar, please reach out to me at

Otherwise, use the calendar to book an individual coaching call, or you can consider a coaching package.