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The 3+1 Separation Strategy is a powerful, simple and actionable outline of the strategy that I’ve seen the most men… Read More

If you want signs your wife is cheating but don’t want to snoop to find out, start here. Every man… Read More

Prefer to listen? Use the mp3 player above ^^ Did you hope that your wife would put the separation on… Read More

With Valentine’s Day coming up, I’ve been getting a lot of questions from separated men who need help navigating the… Read More

Stephen, I’ve been making great progress on myself, but my wife doesn’t see it. Should I tell her about my… Read More

I was a full-time freelance writer when I first started Husband Help Haven. The Haven was a passion project that… Read More

Every year, over 800,000 couples will get divorced in the US alone. 69% of those divorces will be initiated by… Read More

Divorce is one of the most painful experiences any person on this earth will endure. Especially if you’ve given it… Read More

Happy New Year everyone! Yesterday I shared my 2018 performance review, scoring myself across 4 key areas of my life…. Read More

Featured image: the kids at the birth center with Kalee and I right after Lyon’s birth, Oct. 25, 2018 It’s… Read More

Did you know that more marriages end after the holidays than any other time of year? A Christmas divorce is… Read More

Things have been pretty quiet here at Husband Help Haven over the summer, so I figured this was a good… Read More

Do you want to know how to romance your wife? Do you want to rekindle your marriage to burn even… Read More

Are you looking for the exact thing to say to get your wife to stay in the marriage? How do… Read More

Studies show that when both spouses are motivated to go to marriage counseling, the relationship is very likely to improve… Read More

All marriage counselors are not created equal. If you want a better marriage, you NEED due diligence when choosing a… Read More

Does marriage counseling work? Yes, but not for everyone. Get detailed marriage counseling success statistics, plus a simple 3-question quiz… Read More

My wife had postpartum depression, and it was the first time in my marriage that I really felt like a… Read More

I still remember how hard it was. I remember how painful it was for my wife. Those first 14 months… Read More

Normally when you read a post like this, you’ll hear about all the awesome things that happened in the past… Read More

Let’s step away from the divorce strategy talk for a moment. Let’s assume you’ve done your due diligence, you’ve talked… Read More

There is a reason that most divorce attorneys will tell you to stay in the marital home as long as… Read More

You’ve made positive changes as a man, and you’re a better husband than the day your wife left. The problem… Read More

One of the hardest obstacles to overcome in a separation are friends and family who actively encourage divorce. Here are… Read More

My wife asked for a divorce and has moved in with her parents. She says it’s because she doesn’t love… Read More

My wife and I are separated and she has taken off her wedding ring. I still wear mine because I… Read More

In this post I’ll cover the four major goals that I hope to accomplish on the Haven by the end… Read More

Learn about a new free resource I’ve just published on Husband Help Haven. Plus, get an inside look at what’s… Read More

Happy Father’s Day! I wanted to write you this letter for a couple reasons. First, because it’s Father’s Day and… Read More

A wife who does not feel heard will never feel loved. Every wife wants to feel heard. Many times, especially… Read More

No husband is ever prepared for his wife to want out of the marriage. Learn the four most common mistakes… Read More

What’s the very first thing you MUST do to get your wife back? Let her go. I know, it sounds… Read More

Last week, I asked the husbands Inside the Haven to share their single biggest struggle in their separation. Over 150… Read More

I was looking in the mirror this morning and I realized something: I’m getting fat. I’m not saying I need… Read More

Why is your wife going through a midlife crisis? In six years, seeing hundreds and hundreds of MLCs has taught… Read More

If it feels like your wife is determined to push away from the marriage… If she’s decided that there’s NO… Read More

Your wife is distant, maybe even separated, but you still want to celebrate Valentine’s Day. How can you show her… Read More

In this week’s Reader Question, we talk about what to do when your wife is constantly negative, disrespectful and mean… Read More

Dear Stephen, My wife and I started dating when she was 16 and I was 18. We got married when… Read More

In almost all of the separations, affairs and divorces I’ve seen in my years running Husband Help Haven, at least… Read More

Reader Question: “My wife is having an emotional affair with her so-called “best friend’s” husband, and now she says she’s… Read More

Reader question: “I found out that my wife cheated on me about a month ago and that she’s been sexting… Read More

For many years I’ve tried to explain why leadership is crucial, both in enjoying happy marriages and repairing damaged ones…. Read More

The bossy, nagging wife is a classic American stereotype. It can be found in just about every family sitcom of… Read More

It’s finally happened… Your son got curious about naked women and searched for dirty pictures online. Maybe you came home… Read More

Knowing what to expect when you’re going through porn addiction withdrawal is crucial to fighting temptation. When you understand what… Read More

Did you know that erectile dysfunction is the most common reason that young men decide to stop looking at porn?… Read More

Being addicted to porn is just like being addicted to drugs or alcohol. So, it shouldn’t come as any surprise… Read More

Porn is harmless, right? Just a little private pleasure; something you can do on the side without making any sacrifice…. Read More

You can solve marriage problems faster and easier when you use this straightforward three-step thought process to help you make… Read More

Are you having an emotional affair? Or maybe you suspect that your spouse is. Either way, this 15 question emotional… Read More

Figuring out how to forgive an emotional affair is one of the most difficult things you will ever do. Here… Read More

If you need to know how to and an emotional affair completely and permanently, then this simple step-by-step guide will… Read More

Struggling to survive an emotional affair? Are her feelings for another man driving you crazy? Get 6 steps to cope… Read More

Have you ever suspected that your wife is in love with another man? Learn the most common emotional affair signs… Read More

What is an emotional affair? How is it defined? Is it worse than a physical affair? How does platonic friendship… Read More

Ask anyone: Better communication will save your marriage and get your wife back…Right? If this is what you think, read… Read More

Are you struggling to talk to your wife now that she’s told you she wants to leave? Do still you… Read More

Does your wife want to leave you? Do you know why? If you’re not completely sure, then read this article… Read More

Is your wife threatening to leave? Then you need advice to turn your marriage around fast. Read on to learn… Read More

Do you feel like your marriage is slipping away? Is there a numb distance between you and your wife? Learn… Read More

Wondering what you can give your wife to make her happy? Looking for that perfect gift? Learn 9 gifts proven… Read More

What’s the average cost of marriage counseling? Learn (A) the cost of marriage counseling, (B) how many sessions, and (C)… Read More

Discover the most common signs your wife wants a divorce so that you can start (A) saving your marriage or… Read More

Is your wife leaving because you lost your job? Learn what this means for your marriage and what you can… Read More

You Need Divorce Advice for Men? Discover 9 Powerful Tips to Come Out on Top (A) Emotionally, (B) Mentally, and… Read More

Do you need to know how to handle a wife leaving her husband and kids? Learn what your kids need… Read More

Do you want to know the average cost of divorcing your wife? Discover the important factors that affect how much… Read More

Discover the pros and cons of selling the house before the divorce, selling your house after the divorce, and which… Read More

“My wife wants divorce and I don’t, how can I get her back?” Learn why she’s leaving and how to… Read More

“My wife caught me looking at porn, and now she wants a divorce…What should I do?” Learn how to get… Read More

Do you want to know how to get your ex wife back and rebuild your marriage – The right way… Read More

Do you want to know how to tell your wife you want divorce? Learn what to say, how to say… Read More

Do you want to know how to show your wife you love her? Learn 25 surefire ways to show love… Read More

Is my wife lying to me? Learn why she’s lying, why it’s okay for you to be suspicious, and 5… Read More

“I don’t know how to get over my wife’s affair, I can’t stop thinking about how deeply she hurt me,… Read More

Do you want to know how to forgive a cheating wife when forgiveness seems impossible? Let me take you step… Read More

Discover how to argue with your wife in a way that promotes a strong and passionate marriage. Learn the right… Read More

“Why did my wife cheat on me…If I knew, maybe forgiveness would be easier.” Learn the top 3 reasons why… Read More

If you want to know how to save your marriage, first you should focus on eliminating the negative patterns that… Read More

“My wife cheated on me and I feel lost, confused and angry…What do I do?” Come inside to learn how… Read More

“I cheated on my wife, and now I want to get her back, what do I do?” Read this guide… Read More

If you’re like 90% of husbands, then you don’t really know how to love your wife…Learn how to be romantic… Read More

An honest and real Your Marriage Savior review with both pros and cons. Don’t waste your money until you know… Read More

Want to know the secret to getting your wife back? Most men never learn how women work, what turns them… Read More

Discover (A) how to communicate with your wife effectively, even (B) after communication has completely broken down, plus (C) my… Read More

HusbandHelpHaven.com is made for husbands who need to know how to get your wife back, save your marriage, or rekindle… Read More