The 3+1 Separation Strategy to Get Your Wife Back

The 3+1 Separation Strategy is a powerful, simple and actionable outline of the strategy that I’ve seen the most men… Read More

39 Snoop-Free Signs Your Wife Is Cheating

If you want signs your wife is cheating but don’t want to snoop to find out, start here. Every man… Read More

Separation During Quarantine – Preserving Your Marriage When Life Gets (Very) Hard

Prefer to listen? Use the mp3 player above ^^ Did you hope that your wife would put the separation on… Read More

10 Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas When You’re Separated

With Valentine’s Day coming up, I’ve been getting a lot of questions from separated men who need help navigating the… Read More

Should I Tell My Separated Wife About My Changes?

Stephen, I’ve been making great progress on myself, but my wife doesn’t see it. Should I tell her about my… Read More

Is Husbandly Leadership Sexist? 6 Reasons I Confidently Say “No!”

I was a full-time freelance writer when I first started Husband Help Haven. The Haven was a passion project that… Read More

What Is Husbandly Leadership & Why Should You Care?

Every year, over 800,000 couples will get divorced in the US alone. 69% of those divorces will be initiated by… Read More

7 In-Depth Ways to Recover After Divorce & Heal (More) Fully

Divorce is one of the most painful experiences any person on this earth will endure. Especially if you’ve given it… Read More

4 Goals for Husband Help Haven in 2019

Happy New Year everyone! Yesterday I shared my 2018 performance review, scoring myself across 4 key areas of my life…. Read More

Review of 2018: How I Scored Myself in 4 Key Areas

Featured image: the kids at the birth center with Kalee and I right after Lyon’s birth, Oct. 25, 2018 It’s… Read More

My Wife Wants A Divorce After Christmas, What Do I Do?

Did you know that more marriages end after the holidays than any other time of year? A Christmas divorce is… Read More

Mid-2018 Personal Update: Pregnancy, Foster Care, New Course

Things have been pretty quiet here at Husband Help Haven over the summer, so I figured this was a good… Read More

9 Ways to Romance Your Wife & Strengthen Your Marriage

Do you want to know how to romance your wife? Do you want to rekindle your marriage to burn even… Read More

How Do I Convince My Wife Not to Leave? Here’s A Different Approach…

Are you looking for the exact thing to say to get your wife to stay in the marriage? How do… Read More

Set These 2 Goals To Get More Out Of Marriage Counseling

Studies show that when both spouses are motivated to go to marriage counseling, the relationship is very likely to improve… Read More

How To Find Your Perfect Marriage Counselor

All marriage counselors are not created equal. If you want a better marriage, you NEED due diligence when choosing a… Read More

Does Marriage Counseling Work? Yes, But…

Does marriage counseling work? Yes, but not for everyone. Get detailed marriage counseling success statistics, plus a simple 3-question quiz… Read More

How To Help Your Wife With Postpartum Depression (what I learned)

My wife had postpartum depression, and it was the first time in my marriage that I really felt like a… Read More

9 Signs My Wife Had Postpartum Depression (that I wish I’d seen sooner)

I still remember how hard it was. I remember how painful it was for my wife. Those first 14 months… Read More

2017 in Review – The Hardest Year of My Life

Normally when you read a post like this, you’ll hear about all the awesome things that happened in the past… Read More

Should You Move Out to Give Your Wife Space?

Let’s step away from the divorce strategy talk for a moment. Let’s assume you’ve done your due diligence, you’ve talked… Read More

5 Legal Risks of Moving Out During Separation (and how to protect yourself)

There is a reason that most divorce attorneys will tell you to stay in the marital home as long as… Read More

4 Separation Strategies When Your Wife Won’t See You

You’ve made positive changes as a man, and you’re a better husband than the day your wife left. The problem… Read More

My Wife’s Friends & Family Want Her to Divorce

One of the hardest obstacles to overcome in a separation are friends and family who actively encourage divorce. Here are… Read More

How to Get Out of Your Wife’s “Friend Zone” (after she’s moved out)

My wife asked for a divorce and has moved in with her parents. She says it’s because she doesn’t love… Read More

My Wife Took Off Her Wedding Ring – Should I Keep Mine On?

My wife and I are separated and she has taken off her wedding ring. I still wear mine because I… Read More

What’s Coming From the Haven in 2017?

In this post I’ll cover the four major goals that I hope to accomplish on the Haven by the end… Read More

A Long Overdue Update + New Free Guide

Learn about a new free resource I’ve just published on Husband Help Haven. Plus, get an inside look at what’s… Read More

Dear Dad,

Happy Father’s Day! I wanted to write you this letter for a couple reasons. First, because it’s Father’s Day and… Read More

7 Non-Cliché Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Heard

A wife who does not feel heard will never feel loved. Every wife wants to feel heard. Many times, especially… Read More

How to Lead Your Marriage When She Wants Out

No husband is ever prepared for his wife to want out of the marriage. Learn the four most common mistakes… Read More

The Let Her Go to Get Her Back Mindset

What’s the very first thing you MUST do to get your wife back? Let her go. I know, it sounds… Read More

Results from Last Week’s Separation Question Survey

Last week, I asked the husbands Inside the Haven to share their single biggest struggle in their separation. Over 150… Read More

Why Losing Your Marriage is Just Like Getting Fat

I was looking in the mirror this morning and I realized something: I’m getting fat. I’m not saying I need… Read More

Why is Your Wife Having a Midlife Crisis?

Why is your wife going through a midlife crisis? In six years, seeing hundreds and hundreds of MLCs has taught… Read More

9 Signs Your Wife is Having a Midlife Crisis

If it feels like your wife is determined to push away from the marriage… If she’s decided that there’s NO… Read More

How to Handle Valentine’s Day When Your Wife Wants Out

Your wife is distant, maybe even separated, but you still want to celebrate Valentine’s Day. How can you show her… Read More

My Wife is Always Mean, What Do I Do? (Reader Question)

In this week’s Reader Question, we talk about what to do when your wife is constantly negative, disrespectful and mean… Read More

My Stay-at-Home Wife Feels Like She Wasted Her Life (and now she wants out)

Dear Stephen, My wife and I started dating when she was 16 and I was 18. We got married when… Read More

9 Things Every Wife Needs From Her Husband

In almost all of the separations, affairs and divorces I’ve seen in my years running Husband Help Haven, at least… Read More

My Wife is in Love With Her Best Friend’s Husband

Reader Question: “My wife is having an emotional affair with her so-called “best friend’s” husband, and now she says she’s… Read More

Should I Show My Wife Proof of Her Affair? [Reader Question]

Reader question: “I found out that my wife cheated on me about a month ago and that she’s been sexting… Read More

The Leadership Cycle: How & Why Leadership Makes Marriage Work

For many years I’ve tried to explain why leadership is crucial, both in enjoying happy marriages and repairing damaged ones…. Read More

The Real Reason Your Wife is Bossy (and what you can do about it)

The bossy, nagging wife is a classic American stereotype. It can be found in just about every family sitcom of… Read More

“I Caught My Son Looking at Porn, What Do I Do?”

It’s finally happened… Your son got curious about naked women and searched for dirty pictures online. Maybe you came home… Read More

12-Week Porn Addiction Withdrawal Walkthrough

Knowing what to expect when you’re going through porn addiction withdrawal is crucial to fighting temptation. When you understand what… Read More

Porn Addiction Symptoms – How Porn Morphs Your Brain

Did you know that erectile dysfunction is the most common reason that young men decide to stop looking at porn?… Read More

The “Am I Addicted to Porn?” Quiz

Being addicted to porn is just like being addicted to drugs or alcohol. So, it shouldn’t come as any surprise… Read More

26 Shocking Porn Statistics Most Men Don’t Know

Porn is harmless, right? Just a little private pleasure; something you can do on the side without making any sacrifice…. Read More

The Thanksgiving Dinner Problem & How I Solved It

You can solve marriage problems faster and easier when you use this straightforward three-step thought process to help you make… Read More

The Ultimate “Am I Having an Emotional Affair?” Quiz

Are you having an emotional affair? Or maybe you suspect that your spouse is. Either way, this 15 question emotional… Read More

How to Forgive an Emotional Affair

Figuring out how to forgive an emotional affair is one of the most difficult things you will ever do. Here… Read More

How to Permanently End an Emotional Affair in 6 Steps

If you need to know how to and an emotional affair completely and permanently, then this simple step-by-step guide will… Read More

How to Survive an Emotional Affair and Keep Your Manhood

Struggling to survive an emotional affair? Are her feelings for another man driving you crazy? Get 6 steps to cope… Read More

Emotional Affair Signs – Does Your Wife Love Another Man?

Have you ever suspected that your wife is in love with another man? Learn the most common emotional affair signs… Read More

What Is An Emotional Affair?

What is an emotional affair? How is it defined? Is it worse than a physical affair? How does platonic friendship… Read More

Good Communication Won’t Save Your Marriage – What?!

Ask anyone: Better communication will save your marriage and get your wife back…Right? If this is what you think, read… Read More

How to Talk To Your Wife When She’s Leaving

Are you struggling to talk to your wife now that she’s told you she wants to leave? Do still you… Read More

What’s the Real Reason Your Wife Wants to Leave?

Does your wife want to leave you? Do you know why? If you’re not completely sure, then read this article… Read More

My Wife is Threatening to Leave Me, What Do I Do?

Is your wife threatening to leave? Then you need advice to turn your marriage around fast. Read on to learn… Read More

What’s the Secret Ingredient for a Happy Marriage?

Do you feel like your marriage is slipping away? Is there a numb distance between you and your wife? Learn… Read More

9 Meaningful Gift Ideas Your Wife Will Love

Wondering what you can give your wife to make her happy? Looking for that perfect gift? Learn 9 gifts proven… Read More

What is the Average Cost of Marriage Counseling?

What’s the average cost of marriage counseling? Learn (A) the cost of marriage counseling, (B) how many sessions, and (C)… Read More

11 Signs Your Wife Wants a Divorce

Discover the most common signs your wife wants a divorce so that you can start (A) saving your marriage or… Read More

My Wife is Leaving Because I Lost My Job

Is your wife leaving because you lost your job? Learn what this means for your marriage and what you can… Read More

9 Common Sense Pieces of Divorce Advice for Men

You Need Divorce Advice for Men? Discover 9 Powerful Tips to Come Out on Top (A) Emotionally, (B) Mentally, and… Read More

How to Handle a Wife Leaving Husband and Kids

Do you need to know how to handle a wife leaving her husband and kids? Learn what your kids need… Read More

What’s the Average Cost of Divorcing My Wife?

Do you want to know the average cost of divorcing your wife? Discover the important factors that affect how much… Read More

Should I Sell the House Before or After the Divorce?

Discover the pros and cons of selling the house before the divorce, selling your house after the divorce, and which… Read More

My Wife Wants a Divorce, But I Don’t

“My wife wants divorce and I don’t, how can I get her back?” Learn why she’s leaving and how to… Read More

My Wife Wants a Divorce for Looking at Porn

“My wife caught me looking at porn, and now she wants a divorce…What should I do?” Learn how to get… Read More

How to Get Your Ex Wife Back

Do you want to know how to get your ex wife back and rebuild your marriage – The right way… Read More

How to Divorce Your Wife When There’s No Other Choice

Do you want to know how to tell your wife you want divorce? Learn what to say, how to say… Read More

How to Show Your Wife You Love Her

Do you want to know how to show your wife you love her? Learn 25 surefire ways to show love… Read More

Is My Wife Lying to Me?

Is my wife lying to me? Learn why she’s lying, why it’s okay for you to be suspicious, and 5… Read More

How to Get Over My Wife’s Affair

“I don’t know how to get over my wife’s affair, I can’t stop thinking about how deeply she hurt me,… Read More

How to Forgive a Cheating Wife

Do you want to know how to forgive a cheating wife when forgiveness seems impossible? Let me take you step… Read More

How to Argue With My Wife?

Discover how to argue with your wife in a way that promotes a strong and passionate marriage. Learn the right… Read More

Why Did My Wife Cheat on Me?

“Why did my wife cheat on me…If I knew, maybe forgiveness would be easier.” Learn the top 3 reasons why… Read More

How NOT to Save Your Marriage – Don’t Make These Mistakes

If you want to know how to save your marriage, first you should focus on eliminating the negative patterns that… Read More

My Wife Cheated On Me, What Now?

“My wife cheated on me and I feel lost, confused and angry…What do I do?” Come inside to learn how… Read More

I Cheated on My Wife and She Left Me

“I cheated on my wife, and now I want to get her back, what do I do?” Read this guide… Read More

How to Love Your Wife Completely

If you’re like 90% of husbands, then you don’t really know how to love your wife…Learn how to be romantic… Read More

Your Marriage Savior Review – Both Pros & Cons

An honest and real Your Marriage Savior review with both pros and cons. Don’t waste your money until you know… Read More

The Unsung Secret to Getting Your Wife Back

Want to know the secret to getting your wife back? Most men never learn how women work, what turns them… Read More

How to Honestly Express Yourself to Your Wife

Discover (A) how to communicate with your wife effectively, even (B) after communication has completely broken down, plus (C) my… Read More

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