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#14 – How to have an open conversation during separation (and other questions)
Today we'll answer 3 reader-submitted questions: one about communicating during separation, one about how to reconcile after YOU had an affair, and one about saying "I love you"
#13 – Doing The Hard, But Good Thing
A recent personal experience highlights two reasons to choose to do what's right even when the cost is steep.
#12 – 3 Unconventional Ways to Rebuild Trust During Separation
Today we'll talk in-depth about trust and 3 powerful ways you can rebuild it with your wife, even during separation.
#11 – 5 Reminders To Help Endure A Long-Lasting Separation

How do you endure a separation that drags[...]
#10 – The Separation Roadmap
Over time, I've noticed that there tend to be four major stages between marriage and divorce... Today's episode covers these stages in what I call the Separation Roadmap. It is an overview of each one of these stages with answers to a few key questions about each one.
#09 – Get Your Wife Back With Boundaries
Today we'll be wrapping up the Get Your Wife Back With... series with a look at enforcing boundaries during separation. Learn how enforcing boundaries can be the thing that sparks your wife to change course and rethink leaving the marriage.

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Hi, I'm Stephen, the guy behind Husband Help Haven

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Hi! I'm Stephen, founder of Husband Help Haven. I used to believe that marriage was like the lottery - you either got lucky and won a happy, life-long relationship, or you "lost" and got stuck with divorce.

As I began falling in love with my wife, I realized that "luck" wasn't good enough. I committed to becoming the man she'd stay in love with forever.

My mission on this website is to help you become the best husband, father and leader that you can be, no matter where your marriage is at right now.

Whether you're facing divorce or happily married, you'll learn how to make the most of your circumstances and become the man you know you were meant to be.

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