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#19 – From Friendship To Attraction Once She’s Started Coming Back
In the last episode, we talked about how to get out of your wife's friend zone when you're early in the separation... But what about when you're beginning to rebuild the marriage on the other side of separation? What do you do when your wife is starting to come back, but can't seem to get those pesky "feelings" back? That's the subject of this week's episode. We'll talk about developing an effective mindset to survive this phase of separation, and what you can do to lead the way from a genuinely renewed friendship with your wife back to a loving, happy marriage.
#18. Stuck In Your Wife’s “Friend Zone”? Here’s What To Do
"Stephen, my wife and I get along great, but she has no attraction to me. I think I'm stuck in[...]
#17. Thankful In No Man’s Land – The Key To Waiting For Your Wife
Thankfulness and marital separation seem like they'd go together about as well as oil and water... What could you possibly have to be thankful for when your life as you knew it has been thrown into upheaval? In this episode, we're going to talk about three things...
#16 – Holidays During Separation – 7 Tips To Make The Most Of Them When Your Wife Wants Out
The holidays can be tricky when you're separated. Made worse by the fact that the new year is often a time where a separated wife may choose to move forward with divorce. In this episode, I'll share the 7 most common pieces of advice that I give men at this time of year. These are tips intended to help you stay stable, focused and confident as you navigate the last weeks of the year.
#15 – How To Forgive Your Wife Through Broken Boundaries

Today's episode is in response to a recent[...]
#14 – How to have an open conversation during separation (and other questions)
Today we'll answer 3 reader-submitted questions: one about communicating during separation, one about how to reconcile after YOU had an affair, and one about saying "I love you"

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Hi! I'm Stephen, founder of Husband Help Haven. I used to believe that marriage was like the lottery - you either got lucky and won a happy, life-long relationship, or you "lost" and got stuck with divorce.

As I began falling in love with my wife, I realized that "luck" wasn't good enough. I committed to becoming the man she'd stay in love with forever.

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