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#21. How Much Longer Until She Comes Back?

“Stephen, I know you can’t tell me an exact timeframe, but based on your experience, how much longer do you think this separation will last? How long ’til she comes back? How long until she pushes through the divorce?”

This is the question we’ll be answering on today’s episode of the Husband Help Haven Podcast. We’ll look at the baseline average length of a separation, then we’ll look at seven factors that can influence how much longer you have in yours.

Interview with Marcus Farris about his divorce

#20. Marcus Farris Shares His Journey Through Separation, Infidelity & Divorce

Not every story has a happy ending.

Or maybe, the happy ending isn’t always what we believe it will be.

That’s exactly the case for Marcus Farris, a former Peace & Control student who is now living on the other side of divorce. In today’s episode, we sit down to talk honestly about what happened in his marriage, separation and divorce. He bares his heart and shares all his struggles and successes that he experienced on his journey through marriage crisis.

Friendship To Attraction Once She's Started Coming Back

#19 – From Friendship To Attraction Once She’s Started Coming Back

In the last episode, we talked about how to get out of your wife’s friend zone when you’re early in the separation… But what about when you’re beginning to rebuild the marriage on the other side of separation?

What do you do when your wife is starting to come back, but can’t seem to get those pesky “feelings” back?

That’s the subject of this week’s episode. We’ll talk about developing an effective mindset to survive this phase of separation, and what you can do to lead the way from a genuinely renewed friendship with your wife back to a loving, happy marriage.

How To Get Out Of Your Wife's Friend Zone During Separation

#18. Stuck In Your Wife’s “Friend Zone”? Here’s What To Do

“Stephen, my wife and I get along great, but she has no attraction to me. I think I’m stuck in her friend zone. What should I do?” This is the question we’ll be answering on today’s episode of the Husband Help Haven Podcast. I’ll tell you right now, I don’t particularly like the term “friend zone”, …

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Holidays During Separation - 7 Tips To Make The Most Of Christmas and Thanksgiving When Your Wife Wants Out

#16 – Holidays During Separation – 7 Tips To Make The Most Of Them When Your Wife Wants Out

The holidays can be tricky when you’re separated. Made worse by the fact that the new year is often a time where a separated wife may choose to move forward with divorce.

In this episode, I’ll share the 7 most common pieces of advice that I give men at this time of year. These are tips intended to help you stay stable, focused and confident as you navigate the last weeks of the year.

#11 – 5 Reminders To Help Endure A Long-Lasting Separation

How do you endure a separation that drags on for months on end? In today’s episode, I’m sharing the 5 most common reminders that I give to men who are in long-lasting separations.For example, how do you keep the ball rolling once the relationship starts to improve?How do you handle a wife that keeps bringing up …

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#10 – The Separation Roadmap

Over time, I’ve noticed that there tend to be four major stages between marriage and divorce… Today’s episode covers these stages in what I call the Separation Roadmap. It is an overview of each one of these stages with answers to a few key questions about each one.

Get Your Wife Back With Attraction

#05 – Get Your Wife Back With Attraction

The first of a five-part Get Your Wife Back With… series, in this episode we will talk about how to get your wife back with attraction.

Attraction – something we talk a lot about here on Husband Help Haven – is the feeling that creates a wanting from your wife for the marriage. Often, it’s one of the biggest things missing by the time a marriage hits the point of separation.

#02 – Separation Strategy Part 2: Become The Man You Want To Be

The second step of the 3+1 Separation Strategy is all about self-improvement. With self-control firmly in place, we can harness that discipline to start making meaningful changes in you as a man, husband and father. In this episode, I’ll walk you through a few different ways you can pinpoint the type of man you want …

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Separation Strategy Part 1 - Stop The Desperation, Focus On What You Can Control

#01 – 3+1 Separation Strategy Part 1: Stop The Desperation, Find Your Focus

We’re kicking off the Husband Help Haven Podcast with an in-depth walk through of the 3+1 Separation Strategy.In this first episode, we’ll overview the strategy as a whole, where it came from and why I recommend it as a starting point for most men facing separation.Once we’ve over-viewed the strategy, we’ll finish the episode by …

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