I had no idea things were this bad.
I feel like I have to act now but I have no idea what to do…Please help!”
I saw this message on the TalkAboutMarriage.com forum the other day, and sadly it is not at all unusual.
When your wife has threatened to leave you, suddenly all the problems in your marriage seem a lot more real.
Nothing brings to light the stark reality of a broken marriage more clearly than an unhappy wife who has finally had enough.
As I’m sure you’ve begun to realize, simply recognizing that problems exist isn’t enough to get your wife to stay.
I won’t beat around the bush – if your wife is threatening to leave, then it’s going to be very hard to change her mind and convince her to give your marriage a second chance.
Thankfully, by the time you’ve read this article you will know exactly what you should be doing RIGHT NOW to 180° your marriage.
You Won’t Always Get Your Way
99% of the time even after your wife has threatened to leave you, it’s not too late to save your marriage. However, it’s important to remember that ultimately you cannot force her to change her mind.
This means that not every man who reads this article is going to be able to save his marriage… Not because it’s impossible, just because you might not have enough time to put into effect what you’re learning here.
Why am I telling you this?
So that you don’t inadvertently smother your wife and push her even further away by pressuring her.
I know it’s hard if your wife has threatened to leave you, but you must keep your cool.
That being said…
There is ALWAYS a Way to Get Your Wife Back
Even if you don’t succeed, the way is there. As you continue reading this article we’re going to be learning more about how women work and how to convince your wife not to leave.
Your best chance of getting her back after she’s threatened to leave is to improve your understanding of the female sex…This will allow you to see exactly what it’ll take to change her mind.
If you and your wife ever loved each other enough to get married in the first place, then you have a better chance of winning her heart than any other guy…Seriously. Even if she’s cheating on you.
Keep that in mind.
Don’t Dwell in Regret; Look Forward With Hope
One of the biggest pitfalls I see other husbands in your situation fall into is that they spend too much time dwelling on the problems and mistakes of the past.
Your wife isn’t leaving you because of the past.
Your wife is leaving you because of the future!
It is a complete waste of time to worry about or regret things that you’ve done or said in the past. Even if you were wrong, you need to set your sights on an end goal.
That doesn’t mean that you can’t reflect on your mistakes to learn from them – Absolutely! You should! – but understand that the past ultimately isn’t going to fix the future.
Don’t let what you or your wife have done in the past keep you from a happy marriage together in the future.
The Secret to Change Your Wife’s Mind and Save Your Marriage
Alright, finally to the good stuff, right?
What can you do to change your wife’s mind about walking out of this marriage?
Well it’s actually pretty simple…
Your only goal right now should be to make your wife WANT to be with you.
Whoa there, now, I know what you’re thinking…
”Duh! Of course I want my wife to want me!”
But hold on a second…
This isn’t quite as obvious a solution as you think, and it certainly does not fit within the bounds of most normal marriage solutions.
Because focusing on what your wife wants doesn’t limit you to fixing just one marriage problem.
When your wife really and truly wants to be with you, all your marriage problems fix themselves. If your wife is threatening to leave you, then the only way she will stay is if she wants to.
- Improving your communication is not the same thing as your wife WANTING you.
- Regular date nights aren’t going to have a part in making your wife FEEL differently about you.
- Going to see a marriage counselor isn’t going to reignite your wife’s ATTRACTION for you.
Do you see?
When you get down to brass tacks, focusing on the simple goal of making your wife WANT you is actually something that very few people do…With divorce rates over 50% in America, I would say breaking from the norm is certainly not a bad thing.
So, that leaves you with just one more question…
How do you make sure your wife WANTS to be with you even if she’s threatened separation or divorce?
Well, this is what I’d like to do for you:
I’ve prepared a free guide that will walk you through everything you need to do to become the type of man your wife WANTS to spend her life with.
Check it out:
Do You Deserve a Happy Marriage?
9 Essential Traits of a Good Husband
Of course, I’ve got tons of other stuff for you to read through, too, if you’re so inclined. Whether you want to get your wife back, prepare for divorce, or learn the best way to show your love, I’ve got you covered on Husband Help Haven.
Whatever you decide to do from here, thanks for reading!
With Much Manly Love,
- Jacob Elichmann