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What’s Coming From the Haven in 2017?
In this post I'll cover the four major goals that I hope to accomplish on the Haven by the end of 2017.
A Long Overdue Update + New Free Guide
Learn about a new free resource I've just published on Husband Help Haven. Plus, get an inside look at what's been going on behind the scenes in my personal life over the past 7 months; there have been 3 major changes in my family's life.
The 3+1 Separation Strategy to Get Your Wife Back
The 3+1 Separation Strategy is a powerful, simple and actionable outline of the strategy that I've seen the most men follow to get their wife back after separation. It's three steps working towards one goal, all to give you the best chance possible at saving your marriage.
Dear Dad,
Happy Father’s Day! I wanted to write you this letter for a couple reasons. First, because it’s Father’s Day and this is a good time to talk about the role you’ve had in my life. Second, because I finally sent you a copy of MMR a few weeks ago, and I think there are some things that need to be cleared up. Read on to see how you've shaped my life.
7 Non-Cliché Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Heard
A wife who does not feel heard will never feel loved. Every wife wants to feel heard. Many times, especially in a purely "loss of love" driven separation, her decision to leave will revolve around her increased belief that she will NEVER be heard inside the marriage. Read on to learn how to start truly hearing your wife.
How to Lead Your Marriage When She Wants Out
No husband is ever prepared for his wife to want out of the marriage. Learn the four most common mistakes men make when trying to get their wife back, followed by the three leadership strategies I've seen the most men use to save their marriage.

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Who is This Guy?

Hi! I'm Jacob, founder of Husband Help Haven. I used to believe that marriage was like the lottery - you either got lucky and won a happy, life-long relationship, or you "lost" and got stuck with divorce.

As I began falling in love with my wife, I realized that "luck" wasn't a good enough. I committed to becoming the man she'd stay in love with forever. This website is where I help other men do the same thing in their marriage.

Want to know the whole story? Read more about me here.


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