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Dear Dad,
Happy Father’s Day! I wanted to write you this letter for a couple reasons. First, because it’s Father’s Day and this is a good time to talk about the role you’ve had in my life. Second, because I finally sent you a copy of MMR a few weeks ago, and I think there are some things that need to be cleared up. Read on to see how you've shaped my life.
7 Non-Cliché Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Heard
A wife who does not feel heard will never feel loved. Every wife wants to feel heard. Many times, especially in a purely "loss of love" driven separation, her decision to leave will revolve around her increased belief that she will NEVER be heard inside the marriage. Read on to learn how to start truly hearing your wife.
How to Lead Your Marriage When She Wants Out
No husband is ever prepared for his wife to want out of the marriage. Learn the four most common mistakes men make when trying to get their wife back, followed by the three leadership strategies I've seen the most men use to save their marriage.
The Let Her Go to Get Her Back Mindset
What’s the very first thing you MUST do to get your wife back? Let her go. I know, it sounds backwards, but this mindset actually puts you in a win-win position. Read more to learn why you need this mindset and how to start using it in your marriage today.
Results from Last Week’s Separation Question Survey
Last week, I asked the husbands Inside the Haven to share their single biggest struggle in their separation. Over 150 men submitted their separation questions. These are the results, organized by topic. See what other men on Husband Help Haven are struggling with too. (most of these will be answered in the separation book)
Why Losing Your Marriage is Just Like Getting Fat
I was looking in the mirror this morning and I realized something: I’m getting fat. I'm not saying I need to book two airplane seats or anything. My wife still tells me I'm handsome. The problem is, that always-critical scale tells me I've slapped on 45 lbs over the past five years. What's this have to do with your marriage? Find out below.

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Who is This Guy?

Hi! I'm Jacob, founder of Husband Help Haven. I used to believe that marriage was like the lottery - you either got lucky and won a happy, life-long relationship, or you "lost" and got stuck with divorce.

As I began falling in love with my wife, I realized that "luck" wasn't a good enough. I committed to becoming the man she'd stay in love with forever. This website is where I help other men do the same thing in their marriage.

Want to know the whole story? Read more about me here.


Thanks for reading!