Does Marriage Counseling Work?

“Does marriage counseling work? My wife and I have tried seeing a marriage counselor for the past few weeks, but it doesn’t seem like it’s doing anything…What am I doing wrong?”

Does Marriage Counseling WorkIf you’re like many of the lost and confused husbands in the 21st century, then you have already tried the most commonly prescribed solution to any marriage problem, i.e. marriage counseling.

I don’t know when it became such common practice, but somehow the go-to solution for any and all problems that could plague a marriage (separation, loss of passion, divorce, infidelity, lack of communication, etc.), the most prominent and widely advice that you’re going to get is “have you tried marriage counseling?” [Read more...]

The Tragic Story of ‘The Good Husband’

It’s not your fault that your marriage is on the rocks, and only seems to be getting your worse.

It’s not your fault that your wife is pulling a little further away from you each and every day.

It’s not your fault that there’s no chemistry left in your marriage and that your wife is ready to move on to greener pastures.

It’s not you that has failed in saving your marriage, it’s the people that have been telling you how to do it. [Read more...]

Why You Can’t Problem Solve Your Marriage

Let me ask you a question, and I’d like you to actually take a moment and think about the answer…

What is keeping you from getting your wife back?

Whether she’s already left and you’ve separated, or divorced, or she has at least expressed interest in leaving, what is it that has kept you from reviving your relationship and marriage to its former glory?

My guess is that you either don’t know, or have found some way to blame yourself.

But guess what?

It’s not your fault that you can’t get your wife back, it’s the systems that you’ve been taught for functioning inside of a relationship and a marriage. They’re wrong…Dead wrong. [Read more...]

Can You Describe Your Perfect Wife?

Do you know WHY you want to save your marriage?

It sounds like an obvious question, but I really want you to think about it for a moment… What do you want that you’re not getting?

If you are serious about learning how to save your marriage, I’ve found that it’s important to have a goal, if you will, in mind for the final outcome. In this section I’d like to talk to you about what you COULD have from your wife, if everything goes according to plan.

Hopefully being reminded of what your perfect wife looks like will give you the driving motivation needed to become master of your marriage and finally turn things around. I won’t lie to you, it’s going to be hard journey, but knowing what your reward is at the end will make things seem a lot easier and much more rewarding. Sacrifice isn’t sacrifice when you know there’s a reward. [Read more...]

Your Marriage Savior Review – Both Pros & Cons

I got an email like this a couple weeks ago:

“Hey Jacob,

I’ve got a question for you about the Your Marriage Savior System you talk about on your website.

Does it really work? It feels like I’ve tried everything to get my wife back and nothing’s made a difference, and now I’m desperate to make things work. I found other MSS reviews online, but they all seem fake… Will you please give me an honest review?

Thanks for your time,
- [Name removed]“

Obviously, I took out some of the details, but you get the point. There aren’t any honest Your Marriage Savior reviews online, but that’s going to change as you continue reading.

In this review you’ll get both pros and cons. You’ll learn how YMS helped me better understand women and marriage, and how it’s helped me advise the thousands of men who visit Husband Help Haven each and every month. But, you’ll also learn where the course fails and what you should realistically expect.

Most importantly, I’m going to tell you how and why this against-the-grain men’s marriage course will completely change the way you approach your wife (in a good way). [Read more...]

Home | exists to give husbands just like you a ‘safe place’ where you can find answers to any and all of your marriage problems.

  • If you want to learn how to save your marriage, we cover that on HusbandHelpHaven.
  • If you want to know how to get your wife back after she’s left you, divorced you, cheated on you or maybe even after you cheated on her, then we cover that, too.
  • If you want to know how to be the perfect, magnetic husband that your wife adores and enjoys, then we cover that, too.

Here are some things you should know about me and my position on marriage/women/love/divorce…

Here is What I DO Believe About Saving Your Marriage

  1. I DO believe that building and maintaining attraction is the key to a happy wife & marriage
  2. I DO believe that you deserve the marriage of your dreams to your perfect wife
  3. I DO believe that every marriage can be saved, no matter how bad things have become
  4. I DO believe that every man has a locked up ‘Lion’ somewhere deep inside; my mission is to unlock that Lion and make you the best you can be

Here is What I DO NOT Believe About Saving Your Marriage

  1. I DO NOT believe that marriage counseling is the end-all solution to most marriage problems
  2. I DO NOT believe that you will be ‘just another divorce statistic’
  3. I DO NOT believe that ‘working at it’, ‘communication exercises’ or ‘date nights’ are the solution to most marriage problems
  4. I DO NOT believe that most men (or women) truly understand what women / wives respond to sexually, mentally or emotionally

In fact, I’d like to give you a free short report, called The 9 Essential Traits of a Good Husband, completely for 100% free. I encourage you to grab a copy if you haven’t already…The only thing we need from you is an email address and we can have the ebook delivered to you instantly (it’s an automatic system)

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We add new articles and guides to the site every week. If you have any custom questions or requests that you’d like us to cover on HusbandHelpHaven, please feel free to shoot me an email and I’ll almost certainly answer your question in the next week’s content. We’re always looking for new ideas, because remember, we’re here to HELP YOU and make YOUR MARRIAGE better.

We’re going to teach you things that you never knew about women, how they work, why they work they way they do, and what truly ‘turns them on’ and makes them WANT to be with you. My whole philosophy about marriage is based on the fact that every man is capable of making is wife WANT to be with him. I don’t believe that you can truly change your wife’s mind about your marriage with either words or actions…It takes an attitude adjustment to truly get her back. Even though only 1% – 2% of husbands are truly happy in their marriage, I believe that every man is capable of becoming the Lion-like husband that they’re meant to be, and that unlocking that ‘elite self’ will lead to happiness, stability, and passion.

Throughout my writing and content on I will be doing my best to prove these points of view to you, and showing you how to save your marriage and get your wife back using the information that I teach.

I sincerely hope that you enjoy your stay on HusbandHelpHaven. As I said, if you have any questions, please feel free to contact me and I’ll do my best to respond quickly to help you.

With Love and Luck,

– Jacob Elichmann

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