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Here's What Husband Help Haven is All About:

Hey there! I'm Jacob, the founder of Husband Help Haven. That lady standing next to me is my beautiful wife Michele.

I suppose I should start by telling you my mission: I want to see every man in every marriage step up.  I want to see every husband take his role as leader seriously.

Most of all, though, I want every married man to be one thing:

Happy.

If you've ever thought...

  • "How can I make my marriage more passionate?"
  • "What does my wife want in a man?"
  • "How can I be a better husband, father and leader?"
  • "Why can't I fix the problems in my marriage?"

Or if you're just one of those guys who truly desires to have the happiest marriage that a man can have...

...Then you've come to the right place!

Here's How Husband Help Haven
Changes the Way You Think About Marriage:

Real men are a rare breed. At Husband Help Haven, we bring manhood into marriage. It's not a woman's game anymore, fellas! Even in today's gender-neutral culture, you can reignite your marriage with masculine, husbandly leadership.

But, don't take it from me... Hear what other married men have been saying about Husband Help Haven:

So far, it all makes great sense and has been a huge help. I myself have been an absent husband all these years. Everyone else just says talking through sh**, but you've shown more - how to be a man, leader, husband and friend

Ben Igren
Blue Island, IL

Thank you Jacob. Amazing how you're not only speaking to my exact situation, but the timing is uncanny

Seth Cipolla
Jersey Island, NJ

I feel like I have to email you just to say thank you for all the information you've shared. I want you to know that it's not in vain

Aziz Buguah
San Jose, CA

Thank you Jacob, I've gained a lot of insight from your site. The last time I talked my wife said we weren't even friends, but I'm getting happier every day and I think she actually wants to meet. Everything you've written has been awesome, thanks again

Steve Barnes
Salford, UK

About Me

You're still here? Man, you must really want to know about me. Maybe you think I have some secret super power? After all, how could any man ever spend so much time writing about married life?

Unfortunately, no super powers here. I'm not a psychologist, or a therapist, or a marriage counselor or a pastor. But me and marriage go way back. If you must know it, here's my story:

How I Became Obsessed with Marriage & Manhood:

I love my mom and dad with all my heart, and I'm extremely grateful for the home they raised me in.  However, the only thing I learned about marriage from them was exactly what not to do.

Throughout my childhood, I watched my parents try and fail over and over again to fix their marriage.  They saw marriage counselors, they consulted friends and family, they tried "date nights" and all the other things you'll hear most marriage advice tell you to do.

Heck, by the time I graduated high school, they'd even tried sleeping in separate bedrooms.  Apparently, some marriage counselor recommended it so that they could each "do some thinking..."

Even today, I get angry when I think about it.

When my parents got divorced, I made a promise: I would NOT make their mistakes. I would have a happy marriage, no matter what.

Just one problem. I had no idea how. And so began my pursuit of manly marriage advice.

It wasn't long before I realized the problem with marriage today. There are two:

  1. Men don't know what husbands are supposed to do.
  2. Common marriage advice is against the idea of husbandly leadership.

The end result? Marriages fail.

I'm not perfect, and I'm not the manliest man. But, I still manage to happily lead my marriage the way that a husband is meant to. This site is where I get to show you how to do the same.